Thivhilaeli Simon Nedohe Phd

Should I have Stayed Unmarried? Thivhilaeli Simon Nedohe Phd

The book is entitle, "should I have stayed unmarried?" to highlight the pain that marriage at times causes. Many of the couples we come across in our Family and Marriage enrichment programmes often express how disappointed they have become about the dream of an ideal marriage they had, which never was. As a result of this regret, many at times tend to think that they were married to wrong partners. I always indicated that there is nothing wrong with marriage, as an institution, and indeed there is nothing wrong with your partner. Your partner is your own choice. Unless he or she was imposed to you. Why did you choose him or her when you had all the time not to? Why are you unfair to yourself? Do not blame your choices but learn to love them. If you do not accept your choice, you will always think, "had I chosen the right partner for myself, I would have been enjoying the partnership and marriage relationship." There is absolutely nothing wrong with your husband or wife. Your partner is just trying to live their life the best way there is. And perhaps your reason for getting married was unclear at the time of your choice of a partner. Perhaps you are regretting, saying that if you has waited for the right sign of your real life soulmate, life could have been fun. The reason there is no fun in your relationship is simply not because you might have missed the right one. The reason is that you have not worked enough on your relationship. Now that you are together, do not quit. There is no better person than the one you live with right now. Your husband is every man and your wife is every woman. This book attempts to show what the purpose of marriage was when God instituted it in the beginning of creation. That will enable you to articulate same and position your relationship accordingly. Let me ask a vey theoretical question. What if there were a decree by the President of the Republic, which allows married couples to divorce once and marry again? Would you still go for marriage with the same partner you have now? That answer is informed by the condition and quality of your relationship. Carry on reading to enhance and enrich your relationship.