Janet McQuiggan

Why Do Sad, Bad Things Happen Janet McQuiggan

Though this book of magic and fantasy is written for children, it is also a useful guide for parents. Myla is a smart, young girl who is learning that scary things can happen in the world. Her attempts to seek answers and understanding are being hampered by her well-meaning parents. They are struggling on how to strike a balance between giving their child accurate information while trying best to help her cope with her fears and anxiety. This book presents these difficult issues in a make-believe manner that can entertain the child while it promotes ongoing, positive and supportive communication between child and parents. Children's questions must be carefully answered based on their age and ability to process the information. It is OK to say that adult don't have all the answers. Children need to be reassured and comforted so they can quickly regain their sense of safety and security. Routines and normal expectations need to be re-established as soon as possible. This story promotes ongoing discussions to clarify any misinformation or misunderstandings that the child may have.